Group discussion or GDs are a major cause of anxiety and worry for most candidates and it makes everything seem to be dependant on luck or chance. Worries such as -I wonder which topic I will get? Will it be easy or difficult? What if something comes which I have not prepared on? Who else will be in the group discussion? Worrying about these will lead to failure even before the GD.
So how can you keep yourself in control of the situation?
The secret is this- We will do anything to get out of pain or avoid a painful situation than try to get some possible reward. In a GD the reward of possible getting the admission is not a strong enough benefit to push you to perform. Avoiding pain will be a better motivator. Here is how to use this principle:
The important thing in any GD is to open your mouth and speak! In any GD of say 20 mins,ideally you should speak and interact at least for a minimum of three times.Here is technique to ensure you speak. Get a close friend who cares about your success and offer Rs 1000(or an amount that will be hard for you (create pain) to give) if you do not speak for a minimum of 3 times. This will create a drive to speak and you will find yourself overcoming the initial fear and self consciousness. After a few such experiences you will become habituated to speaking out and will no longer need this negative motivator. But this works ....try it out and see for yourself!!
So how can you keep yourself in control of the situation?
The secret is this- We will do anything to get out of pain or avoid a painful situation than try to get some possible reward. In a GD the reward of possible getting the admission is not a strong enough benefit to push you to perform. Avoiding pain will be a better motivator. Here is how to use this principle:
The important thing in any GD is to open your mouth and speak! In any GD of say 20 mins,ideally you should speak and interact at least for a minimum of three times.Here is technique to ensure you speak. Get a close friend who cares about your success and offer Rs 1000(or an amount that will be hard for you (create pain) to give) if you do not speak for a minimum of 3 times. This will create a drive to speak and you will find yourself overcoming the initial fear and self consciousness. After a few such experiences you will become habituated to speaking out and will no longer need this negative motivator. But this works ....try it out and see for yourself!!